13 Tips to Get You In the Mood ASAP
Don't forget to pin this for later and follow Redbook on Pinterest for more sex and relationship advice! The scene: You're coming home at the end of the long work day, exhausted, and want nothing more than to put on your favorite sweatpants and eat cereal out of the box with your bare hands. Except, wait, not really — you also want to have sex. But, like, that can't possibly happen — not with the kids, not with work stress, and certainly not with the fact that your body feels like the zombified version of its former self. There are ways to get turned on and feel sexy, even when everything around you seems to indicate that zero sex is going to happen. There is no sex switch in your body that can make you go from work mode to sex mode, unless you are a robot, in which case, hi, cool.
This is never not hot. When the cat sits on him and he pets her and she purrs. After you come home and you a minute ago want to die and he's cleaned the entire apartment top to base. So you can die in a clean apartment. When he goes along on you and doesn't expect a few other sexual activity afterward. Ideally, he just goes to the kitchen en route for fetch you some Pellegrino and a light snack. When you wake ahead and he's already making coffee. Fuck yeah.