She Doesn’t Want a Relationship But She Likes Me What Should I Do?
As a dating coachI chat with men who have this problem quite often. It can be a frustrating and disheartening situation. You meet a great girl that you have a romantic chemistry with and you want to pursue a relationship with her. She, on the other hand, does not want to get serious. But when it comes to taking things to a more serious level, she hits the brakes. You may feel like getting into a relationship is a lost cause. And, in some cases, that is true.
February 14, iStock We know chemistry after we feel it with another person, but we don't always know why we're drawn to one person above another. Is it just a cataract of neurotransmitters and hormones conspiring en route for rush you toward reproduction? Is it attraction borne of a set of shared values? Or is it bonding over specific experiences that create intimacy? It's probably a combination of altogether three, plus ineffable qualities that constant matchmaking services can't perfectly nail along. It's nature and nurture, Nicole Prause, a sexual psychophysiologist and neuroscientist, tells Mental Floss.
You want to feel the feels. But… he doesn't give me butterflies. I really like spending time with her. I know we could have a great life. I want to accompany what else is out there. I get it: Chemistry matters. If around is no chemistry, there's no coming. It's that simple.